I'm taking my heart back... and I'm not looking back!

Oh love, love, love... where for art though love? Maybe a lover?... or and In-Lover?... Nope, just where is my love!

Heart, heart, heart... where for art my heart?... Maybe stolen, beaten, bruised and unattended to?... Spot on!

Well, today I've decided to take my heart back and hold it close to me for a while, before I allow my heart to be stolen, and taken advantage of again. Its taken me a long while to realize this, but like with everything else, this was a major WAKEY WAKEY CALL FOR ME!

LESSON LEARNED:Its OK to fall in love with someone, just remember not to set your heart on him/her because they might just be sent you for a certain time period in your life, and then you have to let them go. I know, its sounds very cruel and heartless to at one glance, fall in love, experience feelings and adventures you've never experienced, and all of sudden you just have to give it all up.

Well trust me, it happens... just ask me! I fell in love, met a guy that complemented me if every sense, so much, he stole my heart, from top to bottom, left to right, up and down lol. He made me smile, laugh again and just re-discover my inner core of who I was again.

It was as if an angel was sent to me and fulfilled all my wishes that I once upon a time wished for in my life.

As soon as he had fulfilled his purpose, he was snatched away from in a blink of an eye, like flashlight. The funny thing is, as much as we tried to work on it, it would just back-fire every time, one backlog and hiccup, one after the other.

The sad realization is that in the end, I was left to fend on my own, with no heart :(
After the realization, I knew I had to let go... and I have, and with that I got my heart back as well.

If you shared a similar experience, I hope this will help you to move on and reclaim your heart.. after all --- its your dam HEART!

Have an awesome Weekend!

Until next time
Chow Bella :)

The Changes in our lives ...

Life has its funny wonderous ways of teaching us many lessons through the upheavils and times of darkness as well as times of happyiness; either way during those times, it is imperative to observe how you as the individual are becoming either wiser, or backwards, but theres always change.

Many people try and avoid the fact that change is all around us, and as much as we try to divert away from that fact, you can't avoid it for much longer or it will eat you up.

I'm not saying you have to change your ways,habbits, rituals or belief systems, all I ask of you is to be aware of the change that is taking place, and if this change appeals to you, grasp and learn from it, and if not, you may reject it. But the main concept of it all is not to live in slumber and watch the world move forward while you are still at the same place where you were ten years ago, because that seems to be the attitude amongst a lot of black and coloured vicinities. WHY WHY WHY?

Could it be the low energy density in Cape Town or a mindset? Both play an important role, but in order to get through this life, one needs to be a fighter and never give up, hence change your mindset and to always have a back-up plan.

Fear is at our all feet all the time, but through change you can decide to rise above and defeat fears, and once you've dealt with fear, you can focus on you and building you as a person and what you stand for in this world.

Change is here, so if you want that change... MAKE THAT CHANGE, NEVER TOO LATE TO START OVER!!!

I hope I could inspire you today.

Until next time...

Ciao Bella :)
Mish.Dish