Playing with Fire...

Playing with fire is a risky and dangerous phenomenon, yet there are people who do this as a hobby or part of their day job. Just like fire, its dangerous to play a game you know nothing about, like being pampered and treated by someone you barely know anything about.

It’s always imperative that one needs to be aware one’s surroundings, especially when it comes to meeting new circle of people, and wanting to engage and pursue something more than just friendship.

There are always signs put out for you to notice or ignore, be it as it may, not all of us always pick up on the signs, warning signs that stares you right in front of your face because you are blinded by love, wealth and a better lifestyle living as a whole.

I can relate to situations where I almost allowed myself to become blind-sided by wealthy people, men in particular. If you come into contact with these type of surroundings for the first time, it is always a good idea to be weary and on the alert especially when you do not know men’s intentions.

One might not reason rationally at first, because you are totally besotted and brain washed by all the material things these powerful and wealthy people have to offer. Once you are able to read them, most of them are just about business, strictly business… and more business. What might seem at first as glamorous living and satisfaction from both worlds, will become a bore and unsatisfactory experience?

The next thing you know, you become addicted to being spoilt and having money, when things start to turn sour, you know no other way of living. Therefore, you could decide to stay in it for the money, not the love, or rather be happy with being you and independent and aspire to being rich and wealthy as those that influence you.

We always think we are strong and believe that money won’t change the person you are, then you need to think again and not be deceived by money and wealth and what happens to vulnerable females who become too deeply sucked into this vicious cycle.

I hope I could inspire and advise accordingly… IF you have a similar view you’d like to express, please feel free to comment.

Until next time… chow bela :)